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My  Idea of Virginity is unpopular among folks, but I can not be denied the right to thinking logically. As I think logically, I denote my own truth.  Virginity is supposedly defined as celibacy from time of birth. Religiously speaking, a virgin is commonly seen as anyone who has not had sexual relationship before. Nowadays, a virgin may be intimate with a man; I mean, she will get kissed, sucked, licked, fondled, and at times, anal fucked. But she remains a virgin if her hymen (if present) is intact, or her vagina has not hosted a dick before. How ridiculous is this, that the emphasis of this religious term is on sexual intercourse, involving the major sexual organs of the penis in the male and the vagina in the female. There even is a thing called anal virgins now: assholes that have never been fucked. Most of us are virgins in this regard.  Secular emphasis has now been added on the subject. Society now has a class of oral virgins(mouths that have never fucked, sucked or rimmed), ti

There is that weight on our minds that we carry. There is that push on our Will that will not tarry. There is that voice in our heads telling us to do it now, or never, anyhow. There is that intuition to allow out emotions manifest. There is but one thing happening to us, Pressure. You can not deny it. It is as strong as our desires. An item, a thought, a prompting oppressing our minds: Pressure pushes for our doing, many times it becomes our undoing . When posed with the need to do something urgently, we would often feel a weight. Our relief would be when we do the needful. This needful is often times not what we need, but what our oppressed desires want. We can not help but realise that our minds are oppressed by a force we can not reckon, to do what others do, or get what they have, or proof a point.  The pressure could be external or internal. Most is usually externally. Our succumbing to them gives them a field day in our lives. Peer pressure, pressure from spouse, family, work a

  Spirituality, especially Christian spirituality, would do little to ensuring such perceived extensions if one is not deliberately health Wise. Even the most fire-branded 'men of God' die short. They excuse their negligence with the tag "Divine Will". Called to glory when their impact is not needed in heaven in the first place. What were they rushing to heaven to do? I would wonder.  God knows man's life to be as short as a breathe, yet HE made them for a purpose, each one of us. Though a thousand years be nothing more than a day to ELOHIM, man was to live as short as a tithe of it. Why spend a second(a breathe) on earth and go to heaven accusing GOD of calling you home? HE didn't call you. You were negligent, principles shortened your journey, and HE received you home.  120 years is the set mark for man established under heaven; However, your nearing or reaching it has more to do with you than the Divine Will. Consider a healthy environment with it's cle

  Don't bother about life. place your value on Time and life will comply. People who say that life is not fair have only misplaced their values. They are ignorant of their duties in time and seasons. That which takes your time is taking your life.  Ref. 1 Chronicles.12:32 When you place value on Time, you make meaning of it. You understand it; it in turn places a sense of responsibility on you. Time is also a unit of destiny as it is of life. Every expenditure(of time) counts. Ref. Ecclesiates 3 There should be a time for everything in your life, other wise you will find yourself in an unhealthy situation every other time. Place a time value on devotion, prayer, study, exercise, meals, news, relationship, etc. Such times are not exclusive to the material clock. Time is also revealed by promptings, leadings, opportunities, revelations and faith. Your Value on time should not be selfish or godless. FOR EVERY MEETING YOU OVERSEE, ANY EXCEEDANCE UNDERMINES THE LIFE OF THE PARTICIPANTS.