My Idea of Virginity is unpopular among folks, but I can not be denied the right to thinking logically. As I think logically, I denote my own truth.
Virginity is supposedly defined as celibacy from time of birth. Religiously speaking, a virgin is commonly seen as anyone who has not had sexual relationship before. Nowadays, a virgin may be intimate with a man; I mean, she will get kissed, sucked, licked, fondled, and at times, anal fucked. But she remains a virgin if her hymen (if present) is intact, or her vagina has not hosted a dick before. How ridiculous is this, that the emphasis of this religious term is on sexual intercourse, involving the major sexual organs of the penis in the male and the vagina in the female. There even is a thing called anal virgins now: assholes that have never been fucked. Most of us are virgins in this regard.
Secular emphasis has now been added on the subject. Society now has a class of oral virgins(mouths that have never fucked, sucked or rimmed), tit virgins(boobs that have never done titjobs), and so on. Virginity is now based on "fuckable" areas in the female.
"Are you a virgin?"
"Yeah, kinda. I am about 80% a virgin"
"How so?"
"It depends on what part of me answers your question"
Folks, How ridiculous can this get?!
Amazingly, people have devised ways to beat the religious demands on their sexuality, while chastity is more or less becoming old-school to a few others. The ones who beat the religious demands to their game, often indulge in sexual vices without tampering with their hymen, the body tissue that proves they are virgins. Well, they only try to do that as much as they can, but we know the ball rests in the man's court often times. Most girls who lose their virginity in the process often blame the man for deceiving them. How dumb! What were they thinking to have been so vulnerable. Only a microscopic few men are disciplined enough to refrain from such sexual invitation with their woman. And many men out here are beasts preying on adventurous girls and careless women.
More people, particularly in Africa, are finding their way around it, given its communal sacredness. They maintain their "virginity" amidst other sexual vices. That is, emphasis on vagina virginity now.
Even if virginity was to be about the hymen in the vagina being intact, what about girls born without them? Are they not virgins? Oh yes!, Medical science has proven that not all girls are born with hymen. And there are types to these tissue. Some hymen may not allow the passage of my size of dick. First sexual experience for these ones can be excruciating and even life threatening. Some hymen allow a wide opening for the passage of small cocks. These hymen may remain intact until a big cock comes along. Some hymen may need to be medically torn apart by a physician, before a lady can convenient have menstrual flow and coitus.
Some girls may have had tiny dicks or dildos fuck them, still the hymen remained intact. Are they still virgins? Hymen or none, penetrated or not, if ones sexual appetite has ever been aroused and satisfied by whatever means, they should cease from being a Virgin. If a dude ejaculated after a sexual activity, probably by masturbation, a blowjob, or handjob, or dry humping; these are done outside the premise of the vagina; does that mean this dude is still a virgin? Or the very fact that he has ejaculated cum, he ceases from being one? What then makes a dude a virgin? That he has never fucked a pussy or that he has never attained climax? If we are to be fair and uphold the gospels of equality and equity, we would damn this virginity talk we have so misconstrued. Virginity should be whether or not a person has had any sexual experience that led to the orgasm of one or two of the actors.
Logically speaking, virginity is overrated. Religiously speaking, virginity has lost its meaning. Emphatically speaking, virginity is a theory that should be erased off our minds. If celibacy is expected of virgins, it should be sacrosanct. Let the so-called virgins uphold their sanctity to the core of their minds, than a part of their flesh. And if by reason of use, you gratify your sexual appetite, shun hypocrisy and religious save-face. None "virgins" are not second class. There are no special people on earth by what they are religiously named, but special people happen when gifted people show their abilities in Fielding thoughts and making impactful ideas on innovation. Virginity as believed, should not be used to define the quality of a person for anything, marriage or relationship. It should not be a yardstick for social or religious judgement.